Abbey Manor Frequently Asked Questions

Finding the right senior living in Elkton, MD, means choosing a place where seniors can maintain independence while receiving compassionate care. At Abbey Manor, we focus on creating a supportive, family-oriented community. Below you’ll find helpful answers to the most frequently asked questions about life at Abbey Manor.

Abbey Manor is situated just off White Hall Road at Rte 213, about a mile south of Rte. 40, within 5-20 minutes’ drive time from the Cecil County communities of Elkton, Eldersburg, Rising Sun, Northeast, Port Deposit, Chesapeake City, and Cecilton; Wilmington, Delaware; and the central Delaware communities of Bear, Glasgow, Newark, Newcastle, Middletown, and Christiana. Our address is One Colonial Manor Court, Elkton, MD 21921.

At Abbey Manor, assisted living is a residential option for seniors who want to maintain their independence while receiving assistance with daily tasks. It is designed for individuals who do not require 24-hour skilled nursing care but could benefit from professional support with daily activities. The community provides engaging lifestyle options, amenities, and a family-oriented environment to ensure residents feel comfortable and secure.

We provide personalized levels of care, ranging from light assistance to higher support, determined through a comprehensive assessment process. In accordance with Maryland State regulations, each new resident is evaluated using information from their primary care physician and an on-site assessment by our staff. This evaluation considers overall health, physical abilities, number of diagnoses, medications, and cognitive status. The resulting “Level of Care” determines the monthly cost and forms the foundation for a customized care plan tailored to each resident’s unique needs and lifestyle.

Abbey Manor features two buildings, with one licensed as a Memory Care community, allowing us to provide specialized support for residents with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.

Assisted living communities, like Abbey Manor, are primarily residential settings that provide support with daily activities and social engagement. In contrast, nursing homes are medical facilities that focus on providing round-the-clock skilled nursing care for individuals with complex medical needs. Assisted living is ideal for those who need support but not continuous medical supervision.

Signs that a loved one may be ready for assisted living include difficulty with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, grooming, or medication management. Other indicators include social isolation, poor nutrition, or significant caregiver strain. The staff at Abbey Manor is available to help families confidentially evaluate readiness and determine if our community is the right fit.

The cost of assisted living at Abbey Manor is based on the resident’s room type and their assessed level of care. Monthly fees are all-inclusive, covering home-cooked meals, housekeeping, laundry, a full calendar of activities, and professional care staff. There is a one-time Entrance Fee, which is a standard practice at many professionally-managed facilities and supports the ongoing maintenance and improvement of the building and grounds. Residents are responsible for their own medications, toiletries, and any private telephone service.

At Abbey Manor, we understand that planning for assisted living is an important decision for every family. We are a private-pay community, which allows us to provide personalized care and a homelike environment for our residents. While some assisted living communities may accept Medicaid waiver programs, Abbey Manor does not. Families with long-term care insurance may be able to submit for reimbursement if their policy includes assisted living or memory care coverage. We encourage families to review their insurance benefits and connect with organizations such as the Alzheimer’s Association or the Maryland Family Caregiver Support Program, which offer helpful resources and financial planning support.

Long-term care insurance and the VA Aid & Attendance benefit can be used to help cover the costs of assisted living. It is important to note that most long-term care insurance plans operate on a reimbursement model, meaning families typically pay for services and then submit claims to their insurance provider for reimbursement. Similarly, the VA Aid & Attendance benefit can be used in the same manner to cover a portion of the costs.

Our compassionate caregivers provide assistance with personal care, including bathing, dressing, and grooming, as well as medication management. We maintain health care oversight and coordinate with outside healthcare providers for additional needs. While we do not provide skilled medical care, residents can continue to see their own doctors or choose the on-site house doctor.

Abbey Manor offers both traditional assisted living and a licensed Memory Care community to meet a wide range of needs. Residents with mild memory loss may thrive in our assisted living environment, where many experience some degree of cognitive change. For those requiring more specialized support, our Memory Care building provides a secure and compassionate setting designed for all stages of dementia. This approach allows each resident to receive the level of care that best supports their safety, comfort, and quality of life.

We update care plans as a resident’s needs evolve, based on reassessments conducted at least twice a year or after a significant medical event. Many residents are able to remain in their home at Abbey Manor with added support or the assistance of hospice services.

Yes, our dedicated and compassionate staff is available on-site twenty-four hours a day, including awake overnight caregivers and on-call nursing support. We strive to maintain a low staff-to-resident ratio, ensuring that every resident receives personalized attention and care when they need it.

We offer a full calendar of engaging activities, including games, crafts, music, exercise programs, and group outings. Community spaces include a dining room, a sunroom, and a comfortable atrium-style living area. Residents enjoy private suites with handicapped-accessible bathrooms, and amenities such as housekeeping, laundry, and all basic utilities are included.

Yes. We warmly welcome family visits and encourage loved ones to remain actively involved in our community. Regular visiting hours are from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m.; however, we understand that every family’s schedule is different and we are happy to accommodate visits outside these hours when needed. Our goal is to make it easy for families to stay connected and engaged with their loved ones.

Yes. We provide essential furnishings such as a bed, nightstand, dresser, and chair. Families are welcome to bring personal furnishings and décor to make each apartment feel like home. Creating a familiar, comfortable environment helps support residents’ well-being and ease the transition into our community.

Pets are welcome to visit Abbey Manor with appropriate documentation and approval. However, pets are not permitted to reside with residents.

After a tour and assessment, we guide families through the paperwork and prepare for move-in. Our team makes sure the transition is as smooth and stress-free as possible.

Yes, Abbey Manor offers short-term respite stays on a space-available basis. These stays, typically 10 to 30 days, are ideal for families needing temporary care for a loved one or as a way to experience the community before committing to a permanent move. The cost is a higher daily rate than for permanent residents, and the one-time Entrance Fee is not charged.

Yes, we assist with long-distance transitions and can coordinate required paperwork remotely.

The best first step for families is to schedule a tour to see our community firsthand. This allows you to experience the inviting atmosphere and meet our compassionate staff. We understand that finding the right fit is a big decision, which is why we also offer short-term respite stays. These temporary stays, typically 10 to 30 days, are a great way for a loved one to experience life at Abbey Manor before making a long-term commitment. Unlike a permanent move, the one-time Entrance Fee is not charged for a respite stay. To get started and learn more about our seamless admission process, please schedule a tour or call us today.

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