{"id":18869,"date":"2026-09-08T13:00:47","date_gmt":"2026-09-08T17:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/?p=18869"},"modified":"2026-10-09T04:18:59","modified_gmt":"2026-10-09T08:18:59","slug":"how-to-move-a-parent-with-dementia-to-assisted-living","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/blog\/how-to-move-a-parent-with-dementia-to-assisted-living\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Move a Parent With Dementia to Assisted Living"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1365px;margin-left: calc(-5% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-5% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:2.375%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:2.375%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:2.375%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:2.375%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:2.375%;--awb-spacing-left-small:2.375%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Moving a parent with dementia to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/assisted-living\/\">assisted living<\/a><\/strong> or <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/memory-care-in-elkton-md\/\">memory care<\/a><\/strong> takes careful planning. A smoother transition starts with preparing early, preserving familiar routines, and planning for difficult moments before, during, and after moving day.<\/p>\n<p>If you are unsure what level of support may be appropriate, call Abbey Manor at <strong><a href=\"tel:410-620-4126\">410-620-4126<\/a><\/strong> to discuss your parent\u2019s needs and next steps.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-margin-top:2.5%;--awb-margin-bottom:2.5%;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-dropshadow imageframe-1 hover-type-none\" style=\"border-radius:25px;-webkit-box-shadow: 3px 3px 7px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);box-shadow: 3px 3px 7px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"668\" alt=\"An adult son and his elderly father sit on a couch looking at a framed photograph, a calming strategy used when figuring out how to move a parent with dementia.\" title=\"An adult son and his elderly father sit on a couch looking at a framed photograph, a calming strategy used when figuring out how to move a parent with dementia.\" src=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Son-showing-family-photo-to-his-father.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-18870\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Son-showing-family-photo-to-his-father-200x134.jpg 200w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Son-showing-family-photo-to-his-father-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Son-showing-family-photo-to-his-father-600x401.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Son-showing-family-photo-to-his-father-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Son-showing-family-photo-to-his-father.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">1. Start Planning Before Moving Day<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><h3>Determine What Level of Support Your Parent Needs<\/h3>\n<p>Does your parent need help with medications, bathing, dressing, meals, mobility, or supervision? Wandering, falls, missed medications, increasing confusion, or difficulty staying safely alone can also signal a need for more support.<\/p>\n<p>Assisted living may be a good fit when your parent needs regular help while maintaining some independence. Memory care may be more appropriate when dementia-related changes create a greater need for structure and supervision.<\/p>\n<h3>Complete Medical and Admission Paperwork Early<\/h3>\n<p>Do not leave medical and admission paperwork until moving day. Before the move, gather your parent\u2019s current medication list, diagnoses, allergy information, health history, and any legal or medical documents that may be relevant to their care.<\/p>\n<p>Admission requirements can vary depending on your parent\u2019s health and level of support, so it is better to confirm what is needed before moving day rather than trying to sort everything out at arrival.<\/p>\n<p>Call Abbey Manor at <strong><a href=\"tel:410-620-4126\">410-620-4126<\/a><\/strong> before the move, and we can explain what information and paperwork you should prepare for your parent\u2019s admission.<\/p>\n<h3>Offer Small, Manageable Choices<\/h3>\n<p>Instead of asking, \u201cWhat do you want to bring?\u201d offer one or two choices:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">\u201cWould you like the blue quilt or the green blanket?\u201d<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">\u201cDo you want to wear the red sweater or the blue sweater?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Small choices can preserve involvement without creating decision overload.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">2. Talk About the Move in a Way That Reduces Distress<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><p>Use short, calm explanations and avoid arguing when your parent remembers events differently. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nia.nih.gov\/health\/alzheimers-changes-behavior-and-communication\/coping-agitation-aggression-and-sundowning\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">National Institute on Aging recommends calm communication, familiar routines, reduced noise and clutter, and familiar objects<\/a> when agitation or sundowning is a concern.<\/p>\n<p>If your parent becomes upset, acknowledge the feeling and redirect toward something familiar. If conversations consistently cause significant distress, ask your parent\u2019s health care professional for guidance.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-3 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">3. Coordinate the Transition With Abbey Manor<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><p>Before moving day, tell us about your parent\u2019s routines, communication preferences, anxiety triggers, calming strategies, mobility needs, medications, and relevant health information. We assess your parent\u2019s needs before admission so we can develop an individualized care plan.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/schedule-tour\/\"><strong>Schedule a tour of Abbey Manor<\/strong><\/a> to see our setting and discuss what your parent may need during the transition.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-4 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">4. Prepare the New Room and Pack Carefully<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\"><p>Bring familiar belongings such as family photos, a favorite blanket, meaningful d\u00e9cor, or a favorite chair if space allows. You can personalize our <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/private-rooms\/\">private rooms<\/a><\/strong> with familiar furniture and belongings.<\/p>\n<h3>Pack in a Way That Minimizes Distress<\/h3>\n<p>Seeing belongings disappear into boxes may be upsetting. If packing increases anxiety, consider doing most of it while your parent is with a trusted relative or friend.<\/p>\n<p>If you need to pack while your parent is home, work gradually, keep boxes outside the immediate living area when possible, and leave familiar everyday items in place until close to moving day.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-margin-top:2.5%;--awb-margin-bottom:2.5%;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-dropshadow imageframe-2 hover-type-none\" style=\"border-radius:25px;-webkit-box-shadow: 3px 3px 7px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);box-shadow: 3px 3px 7px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"546\" alt=\"Memory care personnels assisting seniors\" title=\"Memory care staff assisting seniors\" src=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/care-personnels-assisting-seniors.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-18871\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/care-personnels-assisting-seniors-200x109.jpg 200w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/care-personnels-assisting-seniors-400x218.jpg 400w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/care-personnels-assisting-seniors-600x328.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/care-personnels-assisting-seniors-800x437.jpg 800w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/care-personnels-assisting-seniors.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-5 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">Moving Day Success Checklist<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-6\"><h3>Before Leaving Home<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Confirm the move-in time and admission requirements.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Confirm medications and pharmacy arrangements.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Bring identification and health information.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Pack labeled clothing and essentials.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Bring one or two familiar comfort items.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Choose a move-in time that fits your parent\u2019s usual routine. Earlier in the day may work better if your parent is typically more rested and alert in the morning or experiences increased confusion later in the day. Consider when your parent is usually calmest, and contact Abbey Manor if you would like help planning an appropriate arrival time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>If Your Parent Refuses to Leave<\/h3>\n<p>Avoid arguing or physically forcing the transition. If resistance increases, stop pushing for the moment. Give your parent some space, then return calmly and focus on one immediate action.<\/p>\n<p>Try, \u201cLet\u2019s get your coat on,\u201d or, \u201cWould you like to bring your blue sweater?\u201d Familiar music, a drink, or photographs may also reduce pressure.<\/p>\n<p>If resistance continues, contact us and your parent\u2019s health care professional for guidance. Seek emergency help only for an immediate medical or safety emergency.<\/p>\n<h3>During the Car Ride<\/h3>\n<p>Keep the trip calm and unhurried. If your parent may become anxious, consider having two adults travel together so one can drive while the other stays with your parent.<\/p>\n<p>If your parent asks where you are going, keep the answer brief and truthful:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re going to Abbey Manor. They\u2019re expecting us and will help us get settled.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If the question comes up again, repeat the same explanation and redirect toward familiar music, scenery, or simple conversation.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.alzheimers.org.uk\/get-support\/living-with-dementia\/transport-travelling-tips-dementia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alzheimer\u2019s Society guidance for traveling with dementia<\/a> recommends planning when agitation or vehicle safety may be a concern. If your parent has previously tried to open doors or remove a seat belt while the car is moving, consider appropriate rear-door safety features or alternative transportation before moving day.<\/p>\n<p>If your parent refuses to get out after arriving, do not physically force them. Contact us and ask whether we can help make the arrival less abrupt.<\/p>\n<h3>When It Is Time to Leave<\/h3>\n<p>A long goodbye may increase distress. Before moving day, ask us how we can support your departure.<\/p>\n<p>We may be able to engage your parent with a meal or activity while you leave. Once your parent is comfortable and occupied, keep your departure brief.<\/p>\n<h3>Expect the First Few Days to Be Emotional<\/h3>\n<p>You may feel guilt, grief, anxiety, relief, or several emotions at once. Those feelings can coexist after a major transition.<\/p>\n<p>Before you leave, decide how and when you will check in. If possible, spend time with a family member or friend afterward rather than carrying the day alone.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-6 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">Help Your Parent Adjust During the First Few Weeks<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-7\"><p>A difficult first day or repeated request to go home does not automatically mean the move has failed. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alz.org\/help-support\/caregiving\/care-options\/changing-care-providers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alzheimer\u2019s Association notes that changing care settings can temporarily increase confusion<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>Ask About Visits During the Initial Adjustment<\/h3>\n<p>Ask us whether certain visit times or lengths may better support your parent\u2019s adjustment. Watch how your parent responds, then adjust accordingly.<\/p>\n<h3>Handle \u201cI Want to Go Home\u201d Calls Calmly<\/h3>\n<p>You do not need to debate the move during every call. Respond to the feeling first:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know you miss home. That sounds really hard. You\u2019re safe, and I\u2019m thinking about you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then redirect toward something immediate, such as lunch, family photos, or an activity. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alz.org\/help-support\/caregiving\/stages-behaviors\/repetition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alzheimer\u2019s Association recommends responding to the emotion behind repeated questions<\/a> rather than continually correcting the person.<\/p>\n<p>If frequent calls become distressing, contact us to ask how your parent is doing between calls.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-margin-top:2.5%;--awb-margin-bottom:2.5%;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-dropshadow imageframe-3 hover-type-none\" style=\"border-radius:25px;-webkit-box-shadow: 3px 3px 7px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);box-shadow: 3px 3px 7px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" alt=\"Young daughter speaking with senior father\" title=\"Young daughter speaking with father\" src=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Young-daughter-speaking-with-her-father.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-18872\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Young-daughter-speaking-with-her-father-200x133.jpg 200w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Young-daughter-speaking-with-her-father-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Young-daughter-speaking-with-her-father-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Young-daughter-speaking-with-her-father-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/Young-daughter-speaking-with-her-father.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-7 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">Plan Your Parent\u2019s Transition With Abbey Manor<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-8\"><p>Moving a parent with dementia rarely follows a perfect plan. Your parent may resist packing, become anxious during the drive, struggle with goodbye, or need time to adjust. Preparing ahead can help you respond calmly instead of trying to solve everything in the middle of moving day.<\/p>\n<p>At Abbey Manor, we can help you understand our assisted living and memory care options, prepare for admission, and discuss your parent\u2019s routines and needs before the move.<\/p>\n<p>Call us today at <strong><a href=\"tel:410-620-4126\">410-620-4126<\/a><\/strong> or <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/schedule-tour\/\">schedule a tour of Abbey Manor<\/a><\/strong> to see our private rooms, learn more about our approach, and start planning your parent\u2019s transition.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-8 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"accordian fusion-accordian\" style=\"--awb-border-size:1px;--awb-icon-size:16px;--awb-content-font-size:18px;--awb-icon-alignment:right;--awb-hover-color:#f9f9fb;--awb-border-color:#e2e2e2;--awb-background-color:#ffffff;--awb-divider-color:rgba(165,103,53,0.33);--awb-divider-hover-color:rgba(165,103,53,0.33);--awb-icon-color:var(--awb-custom_color_12);--awb-title-color:#d89400;--awb-content-color:#474747;--awb-icon-box-color:#212934;--awb-toggle-hover-accent-color:#00bcd4;--awb-title-font-family:&quot;PT Sans&quot;;--awb-title-font-weight:700;--awb-title-font-style:normal;--awb-title-font-size:20px;--awb-content-font-family:&quot;PT Sans&quot;;--awb-content-font-style:normal;--awb-content-font-weight:400;\"><div class=\"panel-group fusion-toggle-icon-right fusion-toggle-icon-unboxed\" id=\"accordion-18869-1\"><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-6a190ff20c7d02c20 fusion-toggle-has-divider\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h3 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_6a190ff20c7d02c20\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"6a190ff20c7d02c20\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-18869-1\" data-target=\"#6a190ff20c7d02c20\" href=\"#6a190ff20c7d02c20\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-minus fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-plus fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">What if my parent refuses to move to memory care?<\/span><\/a><\/h3><\/div><div id=\"6a190ff20c7d02c20\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_6a190ff20c7d02c20\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>Pause instead of escalating the disagreement. Give your parent space, return calmly, and focus on one small action at a time.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-c65dd2491010426d1 fusion-toggle-has-divider\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h3 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_c65dd2491010426d1\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"c65dd2491010426d1\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-18869-1\" data-target=\"#c65dd2491010426d1\" href=\"#c65dd2491010426d1\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-minus fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-plus fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">What should I do if my parent will not get out of the car?<\/span><\/a><\/h3><\/div><div id=\"c65dd2491010426d1\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_c65dd2491010426d1\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>Do not physically force them out. Give your parent time to settle and contact us to ask whether we can help with the arrival.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-e20d79056e17c74a8 fusion-toggle-has-divider\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h3 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_e20d79056e17c74a8\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"e20d79056e17c74a8\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-18869-1\" data-target=\"#e20d79056e17c74a8\" href=\"#e20d79056e17c74a8\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-minus fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-plus fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">How long does it take someone with dementia to adjust to assisted living?<\/span><\/a><\/h3><\/div><div id=\"e20d79056e17c74a8\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_e20d79056e17c74a8\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>There is no fixed timeline. Health, routines, dementia symptoms, personality, and response to the new environment can all influence adjustment. Some people settle in relatively quickly, while others may need several weeks or even a few months to feel more comfortable with new surroundings and routines.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-9 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top:15%;--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:48;line-height:1.16;\">Sources<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-9\"><ul>\n<li>National Institute on Aging. (n.d.). Coping with agitation, aggression, and sundowning in Alzheimer\u2019s disease. National Institutes of Health. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nia.nih.gov\/health\/alzheimers-changes-behavior-and-communication\/coping-agitation-aggression-and-sundowning\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">National Institute on Aging<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Alzheimer\u2019s Association. (n.d.). Changing care providers. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alz.org\/help-support\/caregiving\/care-options\/changing-care-providers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alzheimer\u2019s Association<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Alzheimer\u2019s Association. (n.d.). Repetition. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alz.org\/help-support\/caregiving\/stages-behaviors\/repetition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alzheimer\u2019s Association<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Alzheimer\u2019s Society. (n.d.). Transport and travelling tips when someone has dementia. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alzheimers.org.uk\/get-support\/living-with-dementia\/transport-travelling-tips-dementia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alzheimer\u2019s Society<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":18870,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18869"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19119,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18869\/revisions\/19119"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cateredliving.com\/abbey-manor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}